On going away for the w\e with Bev, Nigel & Julie gave us a book to read: The Second Half of Marriage by David & Claudia Arp. "Not another marriage book to read" I carelessly thought. I quickly changed my mind however from page 1 and have found the book to be helpful, encourageing and a great source of communication. Bev and I have diligently read a chapter then asked each other the very frank and challenging questions at the end. If nothing else it makes you honestly assess your relationship and openly discuss things. It has been great for us - very refreshing.
The premise of the book is also helpful in terms of how your marriage changes facing the empty-nest years and according to their research gets better!. We still have a way to go before our nest is empty but the book is very helpful preparation.
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