What to do when the sizzle fizzles

Bob Gass has written some helpful insights in to what to do when the sizzle fizzles in relationships: "Romance runs head long into reality, something gives and it is usually romance...Romance brings people together, love keeps therm together...a new partner is not the solution. Retrace your steps. You'll find love where you left it: undernourished...Remember what you did for love...special places, times, smells, songs, poems, flowers..Do the things you did at first..."